For new parents
Every baby garment I had to google, with its name in four languages. How to spot it, what's worth buying, and what's actually safe.
The underlayer. A stretchy top that continues between the legs and closes with snaps at the crotch, so it never rides up. No legs.
Same garment, short arms. Under warmer layers in winter, on its own in summer.
A bodysuit that opens completely flat and folds across the front like a tiny dressing gown, closing with side snaps or ties. Nothing goes over the head.
Soft pull-on trousers, often with enclosed feet so socks become optional. Worn over a bodysuit.
Adult tights, miniaturised. The warm layer under trousers or dresses, and they stay on where socks give up.
Summer bottoms over a short-sleeve bodysuit. Ignore these until it actually gets warm.
A one-piece for daytime. Legs, usually no feet, often short sleeves. Basically a bodysuit and shorts stuck together, so it's one thing to wrestle on instead of two.
The all-in-one: long sleeves, legs and enclosed feet, closing with a front zip or a row of snaps. Day and night uniform for the first months.
Basically a duvet they wear. No sleeves, zips up, sized by age range, not cm. It replaces loose blankets in the cot completely.
A big stretchy or muslin square you wrap a newborn in snugly, arms in, so their own startle reflex doesn't wake them up. You can also get shaped velcro ones.
Knitted, buttons up the front, goes on without touching the head. The indoor layer for a cold flat.
Light zip-up warmth for outings and the pram.
An outdoor all-in-one with a hood, often with fold-over mittens and feet. For the pram in January.
Light jersey or fine knit, covers the ears, no brim. The hospital wants one on her for day one.
Knitted or lined, often with ear flaps and ties, sometimes a pompom. For winter outings.
Wide brim or legionnaire neck flap, ideally with a chin strap she cannot immediately remove.
Tiny fabric bags for the hands, no thumbs. They stop a newborn scratching her own face before you dare trim nails.
You know socks. Baby ones vanish at twice the adult rate.
Soft-soled fabric or knit shoes whose only real job is staying on better than socks.
Big squares of loose-woven cotton, roughly 70 to 120 cm. Burp cloth, sunshade, emergency bib, blanket, mop. The one thing everyone tells you to overbuy, and everyone is right.
Around the neck, snap or velcro at the back. Small dribble bibs early, bigger wipeable feeding bibs once solids start around 6 months.
Cellular cotton or knit, pram-sized at roughly 70 by 90 cm. For the pram and the sofa.
A plain absorbent rectangle that lives on your shoulder. A muslin folded twice does the same job, so put your money into muslins instead.
A bath towel with a hood sewn into one corner, so you can wrap the baby and cover a wet head in one movement while both your hands are busy.
Nothing with that name. Try the UK, US, Spanish or French word, or just part of it.
Sizes follow European centimetre sizing, which most brands print next to an age. Petit Bateau (whose photos are above) runs NAI 50 cm, 1M 54, 3M 60, 6M 67, 9M 71, 12M 74. The month on the label is the age it fits until, so a 3M is worn from about six weeks to three months.
The safe-sleep people recommend 16 to 20°C for the room a baby sleeps in. Slightly cool is safer than too warm, because overheating raises the risk of SIDS. If you are heating the room, don't go above 20°C. The Lullaby Trust, room temperature
Rooms don't always cooperate. If yours runs warmer, go for fewer, lighter layers. A room thermometer costs next to nothing and saves you guessing.
No safe-sleep body publishes a tog chart. The Lullaby Trust says so outright, because products insulate differently. The table below is what most sleeping bag makers print. Use it as a starting point, but the chart on your own bag wins. Stuck between two? Go with the lower tog. The Little Green Sheep tog guide
| Room | Sleeping bag | Underneath |
|---|---|---|
| 24 to 27°C | 0.5 tog or none | Short-sleeve bodysuit, or just a nappy at the top of the range |
| 21 to 23°C | 1.0 tog | Short-sleeve bodysuit |
| 16 to 20°C | 2.5 tog | Long-sleeve bodysuit or a sleepsuit |
| Below 16°C | 2.5 tog plus a layer | Sleepsuit over a long-sleeve bodysuit |
Going out is when you add the extra layer. A cardigan or fleece over the usual bodysuit and sleepsuit, plus a hat in winter. In a carrier or sling your body heat counts as a layer, so a baby on your chest needs less than one lying in a pram.
Hats come off the second you are back indoors, or in a warm car or bus, even if it wakes them. Babies lose a lot of heat through the head, and a hat indoors is one of the commonest ways they overheat. Never leave a hat on a sleeping baby. NHS, how to dress a newborn
Bulky coats come off before you buckle the harness. Padding squashes in a crash and leaves the harness too loose to hold them. Dress them in thin layers, buckle and tighten, then lay a blanket over the top of the fastened harness, keeping the face clear. AAP, winter car seat safety
Nothing goes between the baby and the harness, or between the baby and the seat shell. That rules out most sleeping-bag style footmuffs and any insert that didn't come with the seat. A footmuff is only fine if it is made or approved for your carrier. Transport Canada, aftermarket products
The harness test, for anything you are unsure about. Buckle them in wearing it and tighten the harness properly. Unbuckle, take the garment off, and buckle again without touching the adjustment. If the harness is now loose, it is too thick for the seat. Children's National, are coats and covers safe in car seats
Strap lies flat on the chest.
Padding squashes in a crash and leaves a gap.
In a properly hot room a short-sleeve bodysuit is enough, and in real heat a nappy alone is fine. The safer-sleep rules don't relax just because it is hot: still on the back, still a clear cot, still nothing over the face. The Lullaby Trust, hot weather
Hot or damp skin on the chest or the back of the neck, flushed cheeks, fast breathing. Take a layer off.
A cool chest or back of the neck. Cool hands and feet on their own mean nothing.
Two sleeping bags at once, a blanket over a sleeping bag, or anything weighted under one year.
The European standard EN 14682 allows no cords, drawstrings or ties at the neck, hood or chest for children under seven. Check this on second-hand knits and jackets, where it is most often found.
Buttons, snaps and zip pulls that come off are a choking hazard, and wear is what loosens them. Second-hand means you are the only inspector.
New or second-hand, wash it first. Turn it inside out while you are at it and look for loose threads, which can wrap around a finger or toe.
Bibs off after every feed and before every sleep. Hats off indoors.
| Item | Newborn | 3 to 6 months |
|---|---|---|
| SleepsuitsLeaks and spit-up mean a change or two a day. | 4 | 5 to 6 |
| BodysuitsWorn under the sleepsuit. | 4 | 5 to 6 |
| Sleeping bagOne on, one in the wash. | 1 | 2 |
| Muslin clothsFor spit-up. Always in the wash. | 3 | 4 |
| Cardigan or fleeceThe extra layer for going outside. | 1 | 2 |
| HatFor outside only. | 1 | 2 |
| SocksThey vanish. | 2 pairs | 4 pairs |
| SwaddleOnly the first few weeks. | 1 or 2 | none |
Fold-over cuffs on a sleepsuit do the same job day to day. Pack one pair in the hospital bag though, as some hospitals ask for them.
Soft shoes are optional until they walk.
| Size label | Label age |
|---|---|
| 50 | Newborn |
| 56 | 1 month |
| 62 | 3 months |
| 68 | 6 months |
| 74 | 9 months |
| 80 | 12 months |
Lay the baby flat and measure head to heel. Compare with the height printed on the label, or the flat measurement the seller gives.
Go up for daywear and roll the cuffs. For sleep clothes fit matters more, so read the sleeping bag and swaddle cards on the Garments tab.
The number is the baby's height. The age on the label is when it fits until, so a 3 months label is worn up to three months.
| Meaning | UK | US | ES | FR |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Newborn | Newborn, tiny baby | NB, newborn | Recién nacido, RN | Naissance, NAI |
| By age | 3 to 6 months | 3 to 6 months | 3 a 6 meses | 3 à 6 mois |
| By height | 62 cm | Not used | Talla 62 | Taille 62 |
| Premature | Prem, early baby | Preemie | Prematuro | Prématuré |
Zoom in on the snaps and zips (open and closed), pilling at the knees and bum, stains round the neck and cuffs, and stretched or shrunk feet on sleepsuits.
Ask if there are any stains or defects, and ask for a photo of the size label. A listing can say 3 to 6 months when the label inside says up to 2 months. If you want to check more, you could ask about loose snaps or a smoke-free and pet-free home.
Bundle a few bits from the same seller to save on postage. Check the label for the size in cm and the fabric. Wash everything before first wear.
Buying a branded piece? Search the brand and product name on the official recall lists: GOV.UK product recalls and alerts in the UK, or EU Safety Gate in Spain and France. The Dressing tab has four safety rules for second-hand clothes.